Marriage guarantees
nothing. It takes Love, Respect, Trust, Understanding, Friendship and Faith in
your relationship to make a Successful Marriage. Here are Five tips for you extracted from Live Science.
1. WORK HARD AT IT
Romantic love can stand the test of time if you apply elbow grease. In a
study published in 2009 in the journal Review of General Psychology,
researchers analyzed surveys of more than 6,000 people, including new
relationships and marriages that had lasted at least 20 years. A surprisingly
high number of people were still very much in love with their long-term
partners, though the researchers drew a distinction between romantic love,
which can endure, and passionate or obsessive love, which often fades after the
beginning of a relationship.
The key to keeping
that romance alive: hard work. Research has suggested these couples spend time
and really care about the relationship; So for a good marriage, always resolve
conflicts smoothly.
2. BE TOUGH
Speaking of spouse
driving one another mad, not to worry, some marriages actually thrives on
negative behaviours only.
For some couples
with serious problems, the best way to breed a happier marriage seems is by
placing blame on each other, telling the other person to change, and being less
forgiving and this is proven by a research on the topic by University of
Tennessee psychologist James Mc Nulty.
Happy couples
behave in certain ways that, rather than making them happy, may simply reflect
their glee.
So ladies, if you
have a partner who seems to be acting weird and get into blame game or demands
for change then let me tell you that there are evidences which suggests that it
can motivate partners to change. And don’t worry, its all good, just be tough
to handle it.
3. SAY THANK YOU & WE
Two words that can
go along way. “ Thank You”. In 2007, scientists asked married partners and
student roommates whether they appreciated the chores done by the other person.
While most said they felt gratitude, many had not relayed these feelings to
their partner assuming ‘ he or she will understand.” Results also showed
individuals who felt appreciated by their partners had less bitterness over any
imbalance in labor and more satisfaction with their relationship than other
study participants did.
Another simple word
that can boost partner pleasure: “ We”. A study proved that spouse who used
couple-focused word such as “ We” “ Our” and ‘ Us” when talking about a
conflict also showed more affection, fewer negative behaviour such as anger,
and lower physiological stress levels during the disagreement. Using words that
expressed separateness such as ‘ I”, “ You” and “ Me” during the discussion was
associated with marital dissatisfaction. So ladies, it seems that ‘Thank You’ and ‘We’
become more important than “ I Love You”. So adopt this and have a Happy
Marriage.
4. HAVE A LOT OF SEX
Sex is the ultimate
remedy. If you have a partner who gets upset easily, often has mood changes and
worries constantly. And that personality trait does not mix well in
relationship and is more strongly tied to negative marital outcomes than any
other personality type, No Worries, frequent sex could be the answer. Couples
who had lots of sex are more satisfied with their marriages as their counterparts
who have lesser sex. And your sex throughout life can be normal and as good as
fresh if you take care of your vaginal health by using some revitalizing gels
like Everteen. The regular use of Everteen will keep freshening up your sexual
life as it will bring back the same tightening effect on your vagina.
Even if the sex is
not good now, keep it up. The study has found that it may get better with age.
Men in their 50s are more satisfied with their sex lives than men in their 30s
and 40s according to a survey. In later age, some couple do away with sex due
to vaginal dryness and using products like Everteen will help in reducing
dryness too by lubricating the vaginal area. So ladies, Sex is not only good
for health but also for successful marriage.
5. MARRY A SIMILAR SPENDER
Money spending can be detriment of the
marriage but not if you tie the knot with individual who has the similar line
of thinking on money spending.
In a study of 1000 married and
unmarried couples it was found that people tend to chose their spending
opposites as romantic partners. The study showed that financial opposite has
greater conflicts over money and lower marital satisfaction in long run than
those whose spending tendencies were similar.
So Ladies remember the quote of
William Penn and be Happy “In marriage
do thou be wise; prefer the
person before money, Virtue before Beauty, the Mind before the Body”
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