How he is going to like me or my
dress today?
Is my lipstick seductive enough to draw his attention?
Is my dress
revealing enough to have all his eyes on me?
And bla..bla..
This is the
everyday struggle of a girl so that she makes him to roam after her. The above struggling points from a daily
routine of a girl may sound ‘Overstated’ for man but this denotes all together
a mindset and ownership of the girl about “ RELATIONSHIP”. Isn’t she very
serious about maintaining or earning a great relationship with him. Yes She is.
But how man takes it can be derived from the famous quote “ In Love, Women are
professionals and men are amateurs”. So she does it professionally.
But what makes woman literally
attractive or beautiful may not be her lipstick, hair color or dress! Its her
attitude and confidence which sets her apart from the class. I have personally
observed how man falls prey to the attitude of a girl. The infatuation to her
outer make up generally does not stand long in lot many relationships but her
attitude and the way she carries herself makes the entire story worth telling.
So here are the best 5 tips you may like to follow so that he sticks around you
always:
Don’t try to impress him: The most desired girl in the group
never try to impress him. Believe me, “Not trying to impress him” attitude
works with all man. But yes, Don’t be arrogant. Follow the thin line of
difference.
Be a Challenge to him: Man loves challenges and let you be
the biggest challenge of his life. If you present yourself easily then the
relationship shall take a road of lesser distance which ends with sexual
relationship. The achievement of having you is something which should drive him
crazy and give him sleepless nights.
“The relationship earned with pain and difficulties stands longer” this
is what he believes in subconsciously.
It does not mean that you make him to suffer with some painful
conditions, point is that; don’t offer yourself so easily that he does not
value it.
Social & Emotional Intelligence: Man loves intelligent girl. But you need not
to be a pythagoras to showcase intelligence. Your emotional and social
intelligence is quite good enough to bring him on his knees. How the society is evolving, how to earn
& secure relationships, how emotions are stored and invested in are some of
the points which he is searching answers for long time. Believe me, most of the
men are insecure about their relationships and they always look for a person
who is master of the art of securing relationship both socially and
emotionally. Point is that you shoud not behave as dumb person. What so ever
beautiful you are, Men don’t like dumb girls. Men perceive dumb girls as a sex
object only.
Regards to attention: You check him out if he is seeing you
and give regard to his attention which is a great booster for him. You should
not make him completely ignored or make him embarrassed therefore a timely and
frequent look and attention does well for him. A compliment for his choices
(dress, color) shall showcases your liking and taste too, therefore don’t be stingy
in praising him for his taste, selection and choices.
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